Ok, I am pretty sure this happened to almost everyone here and if it didn't it will, so you are there playing with your friends then you die, tehy go get you and they bring you to your body then you scroll the mouse wheel and you press gear but at the secong you press it your hand acidentally slips the mouse wheel whitch select the destroy grave cross button and you loose all your stuff. That got me out of the serious a lot of times and it wasn't just with my body also with my house when the same thing happenend but I selected acidentally destroy fundation, so I came up with an easy solution taken from dayz epoch, if I press any key when I'm doing an action it cancels it. Please Devs Implement this solution for the greater goodm we realy need this .

Otherwise tell your friends to kill you while destroying your cross or foundation

tried that aswell didn`t work